Titles Don’t Define Worth: A Lesson in Leadership
Dear Managers, Colleagues, and Leaders in the Workplace,
This message is for you.
When you provoke or hurt someone, thinking you hold the power to destroy their career or life, remember this: not everyone you encounter in life shares the same purpose or agenda. Some individuals come into your life to learn and grow before moving on; others may stay longer. But here’s the truth—those who leave often carry the story of their experiences with them.
As a leader, how do you want your story to be told? When people reflect on their time working with you, will they remember you as a leader who treated them with dignity and respect? Or will they recall a person who abused their position and denigrated others?
Leadership is not just about authority or titles; it is about character. It is about leading with wisdom, compassion, and integrity. Treating people as if they are disposable leaves a legacy of bitterness, not respect. Remember, many people you encounter—whether good or bad—may not reveal their true selves right away. Nevertheless, they are watching, learning, and forming an impression of you that will last.
So, lead with kindness and humility. Strive to uplift others, not tear them down. Your actions, words, and decisions shape the narrative others will carry about you. Be the kind of leader whose name is remembered with admiration and respect, not regret. Do not limit your love to just those closest to you—learn to extend that same love and kindness to others as well.
A person’s value or worth is not determined by their job title or position of authority. True leadership is not about the title one holds but about how one treats others, leads with integrity, and embodies humility. Real leadership focuses on character, actions, and respect rather than status or rank. A title alone does not make someone valuable; how they lead and treat others does.
Canadians are known for being nice people, and that reputation is well-earned in many ways. However, beneath that niceness, there is a deeper mask of hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is dangerous because it conceals true intentions, making it difficult to discern who might be acting against you, even when they appear friendly. This is a reality we cannot ignore, and only God can truly reveal the motives and hidden agendas of the heart. It is important to note that this is based on what I have experienced personally, so it might not apply to everyone.
With that in mind, I am deeply grateful to God for blessing me with opportunities to work with many large and reputable companies here in Canada. These experiences have shaped my growth and taught me valuable lessons. This beautiful country has introduced me to some truly kind and inspiring individuals. I treasure the lessons I have learned and the moments I have experienced throughout my professional journey.
However, I’ve also encountered challenges. Not everyone we meet shares the same values or outlook on life, and that is a reality we all face. One thing that has stood out to me is how respect between generations can sometimes feel overlooked. It saddens me to see instances where younger people seem indifferent to showing respect to their elders, treating everyone as though age and experience do not matter.
Unfortunately, it is not just a one-sided issue. I’ve also observed that sometimes elders, too, fail to show respect to the younger generation. People often choose favorites, and if someone does not fit their expectations or attitude, they will go out of their way to provoke or disrespect them. This lack of mutual respect is disheartening, and it can create unnecessary tension between both sides.
This is not about making broad generalizations—it is about an unfortunate attitude that seems to be growing, affecting not just young people but adults as well.
What I have learned is this: when working with a company, do not expect everyone to align perfectly with your values. The world is full of challenges and difficult people, and that is simply part of life. Here in Canada, we are blessed with a diverse range of people from different backgrounds and cultures, each bringing their unique perspectives shaped by their country of origin and life experiences.
Unfortunately, some individuals adopt a mindset of dominance or superiority, forgetting that, despite our differences, we are all human beings deserving of respect. While we may hold different positions or viewpoints, it is crucial to remember that we share a common humanity.
Sadly, we live in times where selfishness and a lack of professionalism or compassion have become all too common. Yet, even in difficult environments, God can use these experiences to teach and strengthen us.
Let us remain hopeful, showing kindness and grace to others, even when it is not reciprocated. Through Christ, we can be a light in workplaces and communities that need love and compassion more than ever.
Remember this when working with a company:
It’s completely normal to feel that you aren’t inspired by any of your coworkers or leaders. Not everyone finds direct inspiration from the people they work with, and that is perfectly okay. Inspiration comes in many forms—it might emerge from recognizing what you do not want to imitate or discovering your potential through challenges.
Your experiences will shape you in ways that are different but just as meaningful. Rather than being inspired by someone else’s position or personality, you might gain clarity about your own goals, your next steps, and what you truly aspire to achieve.
Inspiration does not always come from admiring others—it can come from your journey, the lessons you have learned, and the determination to create your unique path. Even if no one at work directly inspires you, the ideas and insights you gain are still valuable building blocks for your personal and professional growth.
Focus on becoming your best self, using each experience—good or challenging—as a stepping stone toward your goals. Every situation has something to teach you, whether about skills, resilience, or the kind of leader and person you want to be. Remember, your growth is not dependent on others; it is fueled by your ability to reflect, adapt, and strive for excellence in all you do. Keep your eyes on your purpose, and trust that God is shaping you for something greater.
Leadership Beyond Titles
Despite holding a ‘great professional title,’ some individuals act as though they are superior to others, forgetting that they too are human. This kind of behavior is not only questionable but also unfortunate. History has shown us, through the downfall of many leaders—presidents, prime ministers, and others in high positions of authority—that when power is misused with arrogance, it often leads to ruin. These individuals may have believed they were untouchable, yet their pride led to personal and public disgrace, and in many cases, their families were left to bear the weight of their downfall.
Titles, no matter how prestigious, do not make someone inherently better than others. Holding a title should never give someone the right to belittle, disrespect, or mistreat others. Instead, it calls for humility and the recognition that everyone deserves respect, regardless of their position.
If you find yourself in a position of authority, such as a “CEO, President, Director, Manager, Project Coordinator, Supervisor, or Team Leader,” it is important to recognize that your title does not define your worth, nor should it be used to demean others. Instead of putting people down, take the opportunity to lead with humility and integrity. Life is far more than titles and status. Sometimes, the compromises we make to achieve those titles leave us feeling unsettled, and it is easy to project that frustration onto others. However, doing so only damages relationships and creates a toxic environment.
Rather than provoking or embarrassing others in front of colleagues, use your position to uplift and encourage them. True leadership is not about exerting control but about serving with a heart that seeks the best for others. Life is about growth, learning, and becoming better. Let Christ be your example—showing that even in positions of power, humility, love, and respect are what truly matter.
Standing Strong Amid Workplace Injustice
Do not be surprised if you find yourself feeling isolated, even among thousands of colleagues, with no one stepping up to support you. In those moments of loneliness, remember that while it may seem like you are standing alone, God is always with you. He sees the injustice and protects you from those who act like wolves in the workplace.
You might wonder why a manager or colleague who oppresses others is allowed to continue, why they do not face consequences, or why they are not fired. The truth is that a network of people who encourage such behavior often supports these individuals. They work together, enabling and protecting each other, which is why they remain in their positions despite their wrongdoing.
However, do not let this discourage you. God is still in control, and He sees everything. Sometimes, the systems that protect those who do wrong seem unshakable but trust that nothing is hidden from God’s eyes. In time, justice will prevail, and you will see how His protection and purpose work in your favor. Keep your integrity, stay strong, and remember that your worth is not defined by the actions of others, but by the One who walks beside you.
What I have noticed is that many individuals have given themselves over to belief systems and practices that are contrary to biblical truth. Instead of worshiping the One who created them, they pursue paths that focus on self-reliance, personal power, and material success. Often, these ideologies are followed for the sake of large paychecks and prestigious titles, but they lead people further from God.
The Bible teaches that ‘the love of money is the root of all evil’ (1 Timothy 6:10). It is evident how the pursuit of wealth and status can easily corrupt hearts and minds. These belief systems promote ideas that stand in direct opposition to the gospel, offering a false sense of fulfillment that ultimately leaves people empty.
As Christians, it is essential to remain rooted in God’s Word and reject any ideologies that contradict the truth of the gospel. The Bible warns us about false teachings and calls us to live by faith, trusting fully in Christ for true peace and purpose.
The Light Within: Standing Firm in Spiritual Battles
After looking back, it has come to my understanding that their opposition is not personal. As a reserved person, I strive to keep to myself but remain bold and straightforward when necessary. Standing firm against intimidation, I always approach others with kindness, respect, and a welcoming attitude while continuing to perform my work diligently, as always.
However, the opposition we sometimes face is not truly against us as individuals but against what we carry—the Spirit of the Lord. The presence of the Holy Spirit within us often stirs up their inner struggles, exposing the deeper spiritual battle at work. This is why they cannot tolerate being around us. This conflict is not personal but reflects the ongoing struggle between light and darkness. It is truly heartbreaking to see how many souls the enemy has deceived.
Rest assured that if someone were one of them, they would not be concerned with small errors or imperfections. What truly troubles them is the light within those who follow Christ wholeheartedly. That is why they will do everything in their power to eliminate those who carry this light, and if they cannot succeed, they will try to manipulate or undermine them.
We also see this behavior reflected on social media platforms and even within many churches, including those we once considered our loved ones. The same deceptive spirit is at work, capturing and leading countless souls astray. As followers of Christ, we must remain vigilant, stand firm in our faith, and trust in God’s power to overcome darkness. The light within us is greater than the darkness around us.
Discernment Amid Hidden Dangers
Should we then shy away from this truth, stay silent, and not speak up? Not. The truth must be spoken when we see people, driven by pride or prejudice, believing themselves to be superior to others. This kind of prejudice leads to the manifestation of deep-seated wickedness, which is more than just human nature—it is the enemy exploiting distracted or misguided minds. Through this manipulation, the enemy works to lead people away from God’s truth. The enemy takes advantage of people’s weaknesses or distractions for a harmful purpose.
In some workplaces, targeted individuals face unwarranted hostility from managers or coworkers. This is not a universal experience, but for those who are not ‘one of them,’ unusual challenges often arise—constant sickness, confusion, or obstacles that seem inexplicable. These patterns are not mere coincidences but a reality for some, driven by unseen forces working against them. The sad truth is that some people are willing to go to extreme lengths for power, wealth, or recognition.
It is also crucial to be mindful of where belongings are placed or how food is handled at work. Some people intentionally sow discord, planting things in one’s life to cause harm. In some workplaces, when an individual refuses to compromise their values or integrity, they might find themselves facing unfair treatment or even termination. Nevertheless, it is important to stand firm and not bend to pressure for the sake of a bigger paycheck or promotion.
If there is one thing we must learn in life, it is to be cautious about the human heart. The Bible reminds us that, without the guidance of Christ, the heart can be prone to wickedness (Jeremiah 17:9). When someone’s life is not directed by the teachings of Jesus, the enemy can use them to harm others. This is why we see so many people carrying a disposition toward cruelty, often without even realizing it. They may find satisfaction in hurting others because it is all they know.
What is even more troubling is that many of these individuals can seem outwardly pleasant and kind. They appear friendly, even helpful, but underneath, there is bitterness or malice toward someone. This is why discernment is so important. Not everyone we meet has our best interests at heart.
It is vital to walk in the Spirit, as Galatians 5:16-25 teaches, allowing God’s wisdom to guide us. When we live by the Spirit, we are not controlled by the desires of the flesh, but instead, we produce the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. It is through God’s Spirit that we can discern the true nature of others and protect ourselves from those who may mean us harm.
Breaking the Silence
In life, we cannot all be the same, nor should we hide the realities we face. Many endure rough times in everyday life, and choosing to shy away from discussing these challenges only deepens the harm caused by silence. While we do not need to share every detail of our lives, there are certain truths we cannot afford to suppress—truths that must be spoken. Honesty may sometimes hurt, but how much more harm is done when we discourage those who speak the truth and refuse to shy away from it?
Having experienced this firsthand, I understand how silence and internalized pain can lead to mental health struggles. Too often, individuals harm themselves emotionally—or even physically—because they suppress their feelings and never speak out about their experiences. Over time, these unspoken burdens eat away at them bit by bit. This is why we must never condemn those who find the courage to speak up, no matter the circumstances.
This is not just a call for understanding but also a reminder of the importance of creating an environment where openness and vulnerability are met with empathy, not judgment. When people are encouraged to share their struggles, they feel supported rather than isolated. Such spaces are crucial for healing and growth.
Ultimately, this message advocates for a compassionate and supportive approach to mental health and emotional well-being—one that is urgently needed in today’s world.
The Truth Behind Workplace Inclusion: Breaking the Illusion
Many companies often promote the idea of a safe and inclusive workplace, claiming that they do not discriminate based on skin color, background, or origin. However, the reality can be very different. While the policies on paper may promise fairness, the truth is that discrimination and toxic behaviors still exist behind the scenes. There are staff members who, despite these claims, exhibit prejudiced and harmful attitudes, acting as if the world revolves solely around them and their viewpoints.
It is important to recognize this hypocrisy and call it out for what it is—deceptive. People who hold these discriminatory views not only damage the work environment but also undermine the trust and unity that should exist in a workplace. What makes it worse is that sometimes, these individuals are not held accountable, and they continue to contribute to the toxic environment.
Nevertheless, here is the lesson for those who engage in this behavior: treating others with disrespect, based on race, background, or any other difference, does not elevate you; it only exposes your insecurities and lack of character. True professionalism is about respecting diversity and creating an atmosphere where everyone, regardless of his or her identity, feels valued and safe. Change is possible, but it starts with acknowledging wrongs and fostering an environment of genuine respect and inclusion.
Conclusion
True leadership is not defined by titles or power but by humility, integrity, and how we treat others. If we have acted with pride or prejudice, it is never too late to change. Let us examine our hearts, turn away from behaviors that demean or exclude, and strive to lead by example—uplifting others, fostering unity, and reflecting the love of Christ. In doing so, we shine God’s light in our workplaces and beyond, creating a meaningful and lasting impact that goes beyond job titles and positions.
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